Become “unfuckable with”

November 19, 2025

What other people think about you is none of your damn business.

Kenneth C. Frazier quoting his father

In the words of Vinny Ferraro, you can become “unfuckable with” when you remember who you are, remember that you have a choice in every response, and remember that you are not determined by the thoughts of others.

I’d like to believe this is my state of being, cultivated over years of shedding pre-loaded egocentrism. It’s actually harder than it seems, especially in Indian culture where looks and perceptions carry so much weight. But, alas, life is too short to worry about what other people think of you. You can’t control it after all. Let them think what they want. Their beliefs of you say more about them than it does about you.

When you learn to become truly unfuckable with, the weight is lifted. The sunshine’s rays hit differently. Because you are free. Finally free. And it’s such a good feeling.